I really think that 75% of success in life and love in the family depends on the woman, despite the fact that I may disturb some of them. But as far as I’m concerned, not so many women think of that. Let’s be honest, the survival of the family is in the woman’s hands. If she knew how to be happy, she will make everybody surrounding her happy as well. And since we are talking honestly, I have to say that nobody is happy with what he got, because this is the human nature always seeking more. And as for being a woman, I refuse to blame the woman all the way, but this is a fact which we have to face and deal with to make it easier for the most delicate creature. Here, I’m not addressing the woman only; I’m addressing the man as well to help getting life much better for the family and by which bringing love and happy life to all family members. I have always admired Jim Rohn who said "I’m sick and tired of being sick and tired" that was the most descriptive statement that I’ve ever heard commenting living nowadays. Simply describes all aspects of boredom. And this is exactly what I’m talking about "Boredom". Everybody gets bored right? The routine kills everything, it kills emotions, ambition, desire, joy, laughter, and it brings hate and laziness in everything. So here are some tips for man and woman to start changing their life style with the spouse, and for those who still didn’t have one to make sure to get himher the way they want: 1- I will start asking a question; why do you think an (affair) is a joyful experience usually ends with failure for both sexes? It is joyful for those having it because it is a "Change", seeing different faces, bodies, attitude, exchanging feelings that were long ago felt with their partners, its like spice added to the main course in life menu!!! And here is the tip, change your look, behavior, and be organized. But there is one thing left, why does the affair usually end with failure? Because it temporary, each sides start the relationship carrying in their minds that it won’t last, and because it lacks security and safety, each sides think in a way that this relationship is not right, which eventually will make it insecure and unstable UNLESS, you think that the one you are having affair with is the right person for you and is better than your wifehusband, and you can’t continue living without herhim. 2- Be more romantic, romance won’t bite you know! It doesn’t harm when you say nice words to your spouse, or ask things politely , and believe it or not flowers always work for both sides 3- Try to listen to your spouse more than talking; this gives the feeling of attention to the other, even if you weren’t really interested in what heshe was saying. 4- Smile always, it is healthy you know, and try to relax remembering good old memories with the spouse, always remember good memories, try to forget the bad ones. 5- Make eye contact, eye language is essential, it expresses love without words, always follow the spouse with your eyes, it will give himher confidence of your love. 6- Try to mind your own problems with the spouse in moments of relaxation, try to postpone your arguments in moments of anger and rage saying "can we talk about this later, you are angry and I don’t want things to get worse, I think I will understand your opinion better when we are relaxed". 7- Use big hugs all the time. 8- Be patient, patience to life is like remedy to disease, you always get what you want. 9- Tell positive comments and encouragements. Support the spouse showing him how important heshe is to the family. 10- Love yourself more to know how to love others. These were my tips, hope you follow them, better than complaining about affairs, or bad life, and believe me. It worked!
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