Often when people socialize at parties they’ll ask their friends and those within their circle to explain what attracts them to the opposite sex. I’ve taken notice in my many years of working and socializing experience within circles of men and women the signs I’ve seen displayed as one or the other person is attracted to the opposite sex. Attraction is a deep sense of drawing two people together to form a relationship. It stirs the inner most part of the mind and causes people to take action to satisfy their attraction.
The first contact of the majority of the circle will be to get fidgety and to keep their eyes fastened on the man or the woman; and yes, women do have a tendency to get a little jealous if they feel the woman is going to be a threat to them. Women have a tendency to look at all the good points the woman has going for her. I’m confessing I’ve included my own feelings in this article too.
It’s obvious when an exceptionally good-looking male or female enters the circle all eyes are on them from the moment they enter the room until they’re seated. Those having a good view of the person will gawk at them occasionally and often try to get their attention.
I must confess oft times I’ve thought how in the world can any one person get so good-looking…whether it’s a man or woman? The entire circle becomes mesmerized, anxious, and interested in hearing all about the individual. Good-looks do attract people to others, and if they’re intelligent and knowledgeable it’s a great plus for them. In today’s society education plays a role in attracting people and getting their attention. A person who is a sharp dresser is like a magnet in attracting people to them.
It’s amazing how both sexes take an interest in finding out about an individual who is good-looking. If the person is a male and he’s exceptionally good-looking, the women will try to make eye contact and flash him a quick smile in hopes he’ll respond back to her. They’ll be in awe of the person like they think they’re some sort of an idol waiting to be briefed and queried. I must admit sometimes "we" women get carried away and carry it much too far.
If I see the man looking deep into a particular woman’s eyes, I know he is attracted and interested in the woman too. Whenever a man stares deep into a woman’s eyes, they’re vulnerable at that very moment. Any man who stares deep into a woman’s eyes, it is as though he’s looking into their soul.
Men amazes me too when they’re attracted to a woman, they’ll smile and desire to be around the woman as much as they can. If a man is interested in a woman they’ll actually get up the nerve to ask the woman out for coffee or a drink. They do not wait around but they take charge and take their decision seriously. The majority of men do not hesitate when they are attracted to a woman. I applaud them for their assertiveness.
It’s my opinion that being attracted to a person and seeing their different traits causes us to fall in love with them. It may be the person’s eye color, their smile, a gap in their teeth, a dimple in their chin, the way they express themselves, their body build, the way they dress, or the way they carry themselves. These attractions are part of the love process, and if we’re not attracted to a person, we’ll more or likely are not interested in them either.
Attraction stirs the human arousal process in the body and mind, this arousal can last for a short-period or for a lifet ime. It’s a greatness that causes human’s to fall in love, to live, and to enjoy life.
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Barbara Kasey Smith is the sole write of this article and it’s written from her past observations of people.