The concept of pre-martial sex is the offshoot of these open ideas and philosophy. The adversarial after effects of such illicit relationships speak volumes for itself. The non-conformist approach of either spouse prior to his/her marriage has the potentiality of creating choas in their life after marriage. Socio-economics factors also contribute for young generation not marrying in their early thirties, but to fulfill their bioligical urge they indulge in pre-martial coition. After the marriage, when any of the spouse gets suspicious of either’s virginity, it becomes a cause of strain in theri relationship has to be maintained, then both spouses have to confirm to the norm of pre-marital chasity.
Theyounger generation of today wants to recognize themselves as progressive and open minded. They consider the sacred relation of marriage as burden and believe in ‘Living-in relation’ , which is totally in contradiction to the society they are breathing in. The flooding of call center culture and the 24 hour work environment they provide also augment the alteration in sexual activity. A novel, "One night@call center" by Chetan Bhagat reveals the aura of call centers and how the casual relationships are running through. The government can also be held responsible to the increasing phenomenon of encouraging the youth to pre-martial relation. Its one of AIDS control advertisements reads "Chalo condom ke sath" and safe sex awareness campaigns, unnecessarily provoke the youth of today to have ‘Safe Sex’ wheather they are married or not. So the government is not bothered wheather you are making conformist or illicit sexual relationship and wheather you are breaking norms of moral obligations or not. If the infidelity is commited on the part of a girl then she has to bore the burnt in the form of divorce or strained martial relationship. The relationship of husband-wife would become no less than a hell. Sadly, our youths have given a message to the society that chastity is no longer a virtue and that fornication can be a replacement for an enduring marriage. They no longer consider the subject of prew-marital sex a ‘taboo’.
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