Child’s saftey

Justifying the means of safety to a child and why you are doing the one thing that may look wrong in their eyes, however is meaningful to the eyes of the court. Sometimes it may seem wrong or just feel wrong to take things into your own hands, but remembering why you are doing it is what matters. As a parent sometimes you have to make decisions that could make your child mad at you or even get angry at you, but in time after you speak to them they will understand you are doing this out of love.

Growing up they use to say sometimes love hurts and so does the truth. As much as we would like to not hurt our children, sometimes the truth needs to be said.

I was told by a third person in the middle of a custody battle that sometimes our children need tough love and discipline. So a big question is to ask could the truth be used as discipline? If the truth hurts?

They say that if you are handed a basket of lemons make some lemonade. However making the best of a bad situation isn’t always as easy as it sounds.

Our Children are the sunshine of our lives and make everyday worth waking up for. When your child is in a situation that causes you to react more firmly and sometimes harshly towards the other parent, they don’t always understand, sometimes they rather put their safety or well being to the side just so they don’t have to see the ignorance. However once you put it to the side then you telling your children that they really don’t matter, once in a while you have to let your children just be mad for awhile.

Lawyers tell you that you call this person or that person, however the big question is will they really do something or will they get off with a warning? I would like to say that if you called children and youth that they will actually do something, but that’s not always the case. Going in front of a judge isn’t always helpful either, in the state of Pennsylvania they believe that a child needs to be involved with both parents even if the other parent neglects, emotionally abuses them and or verbally abuses them.

This whole article is about just because you may run into a dead end from one persons help, does not mean that they all will not help; you don’t give up, you come with all you got. When one door closes another one will open.