How To Get it Right with Guys?
A masculine man will want you to be able to say ‘No” to casual sex.
Wait a moment, what do you mean? don’t men all want to get laid? Of Course they do for biological reasons. However when a man it is interested in building something else with you things can be a little bit different. Ok so let’s go back to the question. why would a man appreciate a woman saying “ no “ to intercourse? Here are the reason why.
- If he can get you in the sack that easily that means other competetors will have the same chances too. In which case, he knows he won’t be able to trust you in the long run. Just because a man wants to go out with you or get into your body, that doesn’t mean you are special. You can only became the “ one” when he can first get to know you, for who you are.
- If he can’t manipulate you to get his needs meet first, you then won’t lose yourself. Well… think about it for a moment, a man is built to provide and protect. If you don’t allow him the space to be a man, he won’t have the chance to fall for you. If all he wants is his own self gratification, then not matter what you do he will soon be out of your life so why would you even try to bond with him.
Men know they can get a lot of things for free especially if they have status, money and looks. They also know that good things don’t usually come easily. Eveything that is good takes time to build. One thing is clear: we women need to be very patient with them. Don’t stand idly by while you wait for him. Do your things be happy with your own company. Men also love happy women. A man is suppose to come into your life to make you happier but it is not his responsability to do the work for you. I know it is hard for us women to understand this concept since most of us long for that special man that will save us from our pain.
The good news is that men in general also long for love, they might not show it to us as much as we would like them to do, however the way to get to their hearts is not through their pants. Don’t let them convince you otherwise, remember they can be very persuasive (that is why we love them).
If he wants you that badly he will come around. you might think he won’t however let him be fustrated and deal with the pain of not getting it his way. If you chase him around when he pulls away, you will just turn him into your son. Yes.. you heard right, you will disrespect him and his manhood and all you will get from him, is his penis.
For most women an emotional connection is more important than the physical one even though we might get confused and get physical first in hopes of getting the attention we long for.
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Elena has been working with men for more than 15 years and now she is commited to help women understand the heart and mind of men.