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Lessons From The Road.

During our travels throughout the Western US during the summer of 2008, we met a lot of people.  Every new acquaintance was a learning experience for us, and hopefully, we were the same for them.  Some of those we met will remain friends for life and others we’ll never see again.  With very few exceptions, all of those we met have been good, intelligent people with kind hearts.  Our main objective for the summer was to work with people who are involved with organic farming.  Along the way, our lives were expanded and enriched.  We were on large farms and places where the organic garden was no more than enough to supply the individual household.  Even though each was different, from greenhouses to kiwis, berries to dairies, they all had one thing in common.

A human affliction, in all meanings of the word, seems to be to take on more than we have time for.  Every farmer we met in our travels, big or small, organic or chemical, have all had too much to do in the time allotted. None of us have more than 24 hours in a day and if we jam more into that time frame than is possible to do, other things in our lives begin to suffer.  Accidentally or on purpose, it can happen to all of us.

Some of us don’t have the ability to prioritize our lives and we jump from one project to the next before the first one is completed.  Before we know it, we have so many things going on, we’re overwhelmed and nothing gets done.  Others of us operate under the belief that we can do more than we can, and when we can’t, it makes it difficult for us and those around us. 

Many times, when any of the scenarios of an overfilled life trap us, our personal lives, health and relationships begin to fall apart.  One of the telltale signs of an overfilled life are drugs.  Drugs used, legal or illegal, for this type of problem can come in many forms.  A lack of time can’t be remedied with drugs, or stimulants for that matter.

Stimulants can sometimes get us to the next rest area, but if they’re what we rely on to get us through the day everyday, they’ll begin to take their toll.  If caffeine is necessary to get us started and then keep us going until we crash, and then we have to do it all over again the next day, eventually we’ll find our bank account of life overdrawn.  Nature will issue us an overdraft with our health as an indicator; if we choose to ignore it we’ll find our bank account closed. 

Visiting and working on organic farms allowed us a view behind the scenes.  Some have been a conflict of opinion where one person’s passion is the farm and the other person’s is different, like an outside career.  Often, one person will believe the farm is strictly an income source and that enjoyment can only be found in other pursuits.  Generally, when the other pursuit is taken on full-time, it becomes no different than what they had before.  Very often, the farm becomes a financial burden.  More often than not, this is a direct effect of taking on more farm than time permits and outside work is necessary to make ends meet.  When that’s the case, the time deficit problem is magnified.

Sometimes it’s difficult to know what’s the cause and what’s the symptom.  Is a divorce, for instance, the symptom of taking on more than time allows, or is the divorce, and subsequent loss of one of the major participants in the farm and life, the reason that it’s not possible to get everything done during the workday and then some spills over into the next day and snowballs from there, eventually becoming overwhelming. 

We were privileged to see, and hopefully learn, how an overfilled life can cause ill health and disease.  Sometimes it takes years to manifest completely, even though the symptoms are there all along.  The challenge is to understand and correctly read the symptoms, then follow them back to the cause and make the necessary changes.  Treating symptoms as the cause almost always leads to more symptoms and very few, if any, solutions.

        

Larry Miller: I was born in Los Angeles in 1940. My father was a fighter pilot instructor during WWll and we moved from coast to coast, maybe that’s where I got the nomad in my blood. After graduating from high school in 1958 I joined the Marines. That lifestyle wasn’t for me and upon my discharge I went on with my life, and have never looked back. I worked briefly for a Caterpillar dealer in Riverside, CA before moving back to N. California where I was a welder and truck driver for a chemical company. Truck driving wasn’t my calling anymore than being in the Marines, and I went back to work for another Caterpillar dealer steam cleaning dirty tractor parts and welding. They sent me to schools, lots and lots of schools. I spent as much time going to trade schools as I did at work. I went from cleaning parts to apprentice field mechanic, to mechanic to the parts department to satellite store manager in less than two years. They wanted me to move to Sacramento and be a salesman: I moved to Oregon to learn to commune with nature. I went to work for another heavy equipment dealer and was later contacted by the World’s largest Lorraine Crane dealer and offered the position of purchasing agent and general parts manager. In 1967 I was offered a line of automotive parts and supplies and went into business for myself. My business revolved around eleven race cars that we maintained for others, driving race cars professionally and maintaining high end sports cars. I was a championship and regional champion driver. My business was the largest import parts and service, non dealer, in the state until I sold it in 1979. We went sailing in 79, first to Mexico and then Hawaii. I was an award winning Trans-Pacific sailor and sailor of the year, Hawaii, Island of Kauai. An opportunity presented itself in Hawaii during 1981 and I was back in business, importing Japanese auto body and hard parts. I also felt the pull to write and began freelancing for magazines and newspapers in 1982. My main focus in my articles is, and always has been, health, wellness and fitness. Most of us have heard the saying, “Time is all we have.” I disagree. Our health is all we have, because without our health, we have no time. I was a US Olympic team hopeful in racewalking and held all the records for the state of Hawaii. As a sponsored athlete in my forties, I finished first in nine marathons in a row in my division, qualified for the Ironman® and was the state USCF cycling champion five times in Hawaii and Oregon. Celinda and I were married in 1988 after a three year engagement. We sold our businesses and organic farm and sailed back to Oregon. After our sailboat boat was sold, we moved to Joseph, Oregon, two miles from the trailhead into the Eagle Cap Wilderness. We were caregivers for my mother the last ten years she was alive. We moved to New Mexico in 1995 because it was too cold for my mom in Oregon during the winters. Celinda designed, and I engineered and built our strawbale house. I began writing the weekly health column for a local newspaper in 1996, and still do. In 2000, I took the summer off to do a four month, 4000 mile, hike, bike and kayak odyssey. I’d been writing health, fitness and sports articles since 1982 and the journey produced a full-length, nonfiction, first person adventure book, Yol Bolsun, May There Be A Road, which can be bought from Amazon.com and others over the Internet. The summer of 2001 was spent hiking. kayaking, fishing and exploring the southwest. In 2002 Celinda and I spent the summer in Canada learning the hospitality business at a resort in preparation for doing promotion for the resort in the US. Most of 2003 was spent reestablishing the trees and landscape that had died during the stay in Canada. We had a house sitter and the house sitter had an ex-husband, and that’s a long story. In July of 2004 I did a solo kayak trip on the Snake River, taking pictures, writing articles and pencil sketching the journey. I hope to do another kayak adventure on the Snake River during the summer of 2008, on the section I missed in 2000 and 2004. In 2005, I returned to Canada to the resort where we’d spent 2002. I was supposed to be there for the month of June. I’d contacted people I’d met in 2002 and they came back to Canada to fish, hike and spend time at the resort, Echo Valley Ranch and Spa, while I was there. My one month became five and then it was off to Spain to do the El Camino de Santiago as a travel companion with one of the guests who’d returned to Canada in June. During the summer of 2006 a friend from Ireland, who I’d met in Spain the year before, came to visit in NM and we fished, hiked and explored the White Mountains of AZ. He’d never slept out in the wild in a tent before, and it was quite an experience, for both of us. My newspaper articles were put on the Internet beginning in 2002. I was asked to give public speaking engagements, photo and video presentations, on various subjects for the library in Deming, NM and continue to do so. In 2006 I videoed and produced a DVD for the Smithsonian Institute’s travel exhibit “Between Fences.” NMFILMS had a conference by invitation only, which I attended. While attending the conference, I realized that film making wasn’t what I wanted to do but I still wanted to use my sixteen years of experience and enjoyment of videoing and photography. During the winter of 2005, I discovered that no one on record had ever run from the Arizona border to the Texas border, a distance of 165 miles. During the spring and summer of 2006 I trained for the run and the run was completed in October, 2006. In late 2005, I began building and maintaining websites incorporating all the things I enjoyed about video, photography, travel and the out of doors. 2007 has been a summer of upgrading the home and property which resulted in a downgrading of my enthusiasm for being located in one place. If we don’t like what’s happening in our life, we need to change what we’re doing. Celinda and I are ready to pull up roots and move on. I guess I’ve come full circle. I’m ready to revert back to my childhood, and a nomadic lifestyle.
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