In my entire life I heard two kinds of marriages Arrange or Love. But few days ago I came across a new definition of marriage which was either Hell or Heaven. It left me in dilemma is it true?
Nowadays, youths are running from this institution called marriage. They consider marriages as there last option in front of there careers & lives. Early and reluctant marriages lead them compromising or repenting all their ages.
According to me marriage is a gift given by god. It’s a bond between two souls which complete them, and to convert it into hell or heaven is entirely in our hands. Life is hell when we consider marriage as obstructions. However its heaven when we welcome it with full devotion & passion.
It’s a myth among people that marriage is the end of freedom and fun but I believe it’s a new episode in our lives. They should accept this alliance to discover & disclose each other.
Gradually you will develop a strong chemistry by respecting or to value your soul mate. Start accepting your partner positively. Don’t leave spaces for complaints and allegations such things can never be ignored and turn into inferno. Time is a biggest asset to build your relationship more strong, squeeze some time from your busy schedule for your loved one it worked as a magic. Surprise your companion with small gifts, candlelit dinner or holidays. Such small gestures make your partner more comfortable and enhance the understanding between you two. Appreciate and help your mate with household work. Always remember those three magical words it revitalize the bond forever.
Ego and rudeness are the biggest enemies of married life it can bring an abrupt end to one’s relation so beware whenever we are furious. It’s better to be composed rather stretching the conversation. Cool head person always wins the race.
They say marriage is all about compromises and sacrifices but I firmly believe its no longer agreement if we accept and love the person with open heart. So, this is the stepping stone towards the successful married life.
If you agree or disagree with me . do post me your feedback.