Rearranging our Bed.
While at the organic winery in Carlton, Oregon, we had to decide whether to stay or leave. We had lots of options and when Celinda came back from her walk, we had a new one to consider.
Her thought was, it would be easier to vacuum the attic and move the double bed we were using into another part of the attic, as opposed to setting up the tent and dealing with frogs croaking all night. Our bed was in a big room with a partition in the middle and a single bed on the other side. In a side room, there was a single bed. The side room is where Celinda thought it might be possible to put the double and move the single where the double had been. As far as easier was concerned, I knew it wouldn’t be, but some of us like sleeping in tents more than others do.
I vacuumed, and emptied the vacuum twice, while everyone else fixed dinner. Dinner took more than an hour and they were done before I was. When I went to dinner, the rooms were clean, the double bed was in the smaller room and road noise was minimal compared to what it had been just a few feet away and, as an added benefit, it was a lot cooler in the side room. Celinda’s idea was a one, even though I like sleeping in a tent and frogs have never bothered me.
Dinner was excellent. Katie, the girl who’d WWOOFed at the winery before, came to dinner and we all had a good conversation over the meal. We slept well that night. The next day, the sun was shining brightly on the inner and the outer, and we decided to stay the full three days.
During our stay, we worked in the garden and flower beds around the house. Felix commented on how nice it was to have people with lots of experience and whom he didn’t have to oversee all day. Most WWOOFers are just out of high school or on summer break from college. We were the oldest WWOOFers at every farm we went to. During the day, Felix left us to our own devices, with not much more than a brief outline of what needed to be done, while he made his deliveries.
We mulched the garden beds heavily and they looked much happier. Mulch helps keep weeds down, moisture in and the plants grow more quickly. I also laid out a soaker hose in a bed that would be roto-tilled the next day. The sun was getting down in the south and opening up an area to the sun’s rays that would be good for crops harvestable before the first frost.
The one thing we saw at every farm, and the way people drive, is that everyone has overscheduled lives. Weeds are weeds and care little about whether we overschedule our lives. If we look at how we’ve structured our time, we’ll realize that flowers can grow where weeds do, and flowers nourish the soul. Rushing from place to place, and like the White Rabbit in Alice in Wonderland always being late, adds to the stress we place on ourselves.
Our stress is an inside job and no one out there is doing it to us again. We have to accept total responsibility for our lives. If we allow ourselves to be seduced by the siren of credit and buy what we can’t afford, at some point we will have to pay the price. When we go on a binge, eventually we’re going to have to deal with a hangover. The current economic problems have only been caused in part by others. Ultimately, we are the responsible party for our binges. Finances are like health, cars and the universe. If we continue to do the things that didn’t work, we’re destined to get the same results again. If eating junk and not exercising gets us into a state of ill health, we’ll never get better unless we change the cause. If changing spark plugs doesn’t fix the problem with our cars, changing them again won’t cure the problem. If we’ve overextended our credit, buying stuff we can’t afford, a bailout that allows us to continue doing what didn’t work for us, won’t be the answer. If we want to be healthy, we can’t have hangovers, no matter what the cause.
While we were at the organic winery, we pulled a lot of weeds, which gives a person lots of time to think. Thinking can be scary if you’re afraid of what you might hear. We planted fall crops, I fixed the tractor and showed Felix how to remedy the problem in the future. He had been told the mechanic wouldn’t be able to come for weeks and it would cost several hundred dollars. Felix was happy, and I was glad I could show him how to fix his tractor in the future.
When we left, Felix gave us a standing invitation to come back anytime, a great recommendation and two bottles of his finest wine. It was a great experience. Next time, maybe we’ll stay more than three days.
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