Social dynamics are rampant and today’s social values are obsolete for tomorrow, as modern generation minds with pre-occupied business motives viewing every aspect of life from business point including the matrimonial and family issues. How much ‘cash’ you are getting monthly or per annum is the fundamental question of any bride’s father to groom, instead of asking what is your “character”. Back ground character is the least bothered aspects now a days in matrimonial aspects. And subsequently in post-marital lives characters incompatibility or short-temperments automatically leads to Divorce. And after one ‘Divorce’ one becomes Second-Hand, or after two Divorces one becomes ‘Third hand’ but instead of calling Second-hands or Third Hands, which sounds derogatory we opted for word ‘Divorced’.
But even the word ‘Divorced’ has become outdated in the present age. “Pre-Owned” is the new word substituted for “Divorced”, as in the case of our automobile world, once we used to call Second hand or third hand vehicles (the already used vehicles) and substituted the word “Pre-Owned” Vehicles or “True Value” Vehicles, as these words sounded more dignified and posh. So and so, instead of calling the legally or voluntarily estranged spouses as “Divorced”, the modern word that has come into existence is Pre-Owned or True-Value wives and husbands in open societies.
As persons who are unable to own new vehicles go to Pre-owned or True-value vehicles, the age-barred, unemployed, least qualified and least earning persons can go for Pre-owned or True-Value Spouses, if they could compromise with their mind-set. Pre-owned or True-value spouses not undervalued, even the historically famous persons had gone for Pre-owned wives and husbands. The Pre-owned or True-value spouses sometimes in rare cases are much better from several dimensions, as they could have already undergone several ups and downs in the life and would like not to make any more misadventurous steps in their lives – as in the case of pre-owned vehicles gives better milage and better performance, even if it is pre-owned, gives a true value. But some pre-owned spouses always wanted to be pre-owned or pre-pre-owned, as their attitudes and behaviour would not change forever and they lose even their True-value after some times and becomes something else.
So, Pre-Owned spouses should not be underestimated always, some of them will have True-Value. By dchaitanya