Sex for a better relationship.
Some people at a certain point of time feel very bored in their relationship. The initial sparks, which they had for each other in the beginning of their relationship, has been lost. The sexual satisfaction which they achieved in their beginning has been weaned.
In fact these are some of the facts which I gathered while visiting a site. Guy in his late 30’s lamented that his wife is not allowing him to kiss. He tell that he works around the house and looks smart and a successful person , but still his wife does not enjoy sex with him and always hurries him. He does not want to leave his wife, as he loves his children.
There is also a woman who is married for nearly a decade and she wants to separate, because her husband is denying her sex.
Sex is a great mode of exercise according to Sexual educator and counselor. Thirty minutes of sex burns about 85 calories.
A healthy sexual relationship is when it has the following traits: mutually fulfilling; open communication, satisfactory frequency and emotional connection beyond the bedroom.
I personally feel that sex should not be a bang and hit relationship. Women are not really for sex, but for the intimacy of the relationship. A simple hug will do. People should work on it. Guys should woo their women. Take her to a romantic dinner, where only both of you would be there and whisper sweet nothings in her ears.
If you are not interested send your kids to friends and relatives and just spend some time with her. Communicate with her.
People don’t communicate. They are always on the run, and on the spare time watch their favorite programs on TV. Women should tell what they expect from men and should not nurse grievances in their heart.
Couple also does not value each other. A homemaker is generally looked down as an unpaid servant by men.
A man should appreciate his wife’s cooking. I read an interesting anecdote regarding appreciation. A farmer, who was married for twenty years, never praised her culinary skill. She finally got irritated and served him hay. When the farmer asked her has she taken leave of her senses, than she retorted that she thought it was better to serve him anything a he never appreciated her. Women are not bothered, about the problem men face at work. His boss might a bit grumpy and might not appreciate his work. Woman should not start nagging as soon as he enters home. A smile and some sweet words will work wonders.
Last but not the least; do not be complacent with each other. Even when you are old, you can whisper to each other that you love each other. Romance with each other, and I assure you the sparks will never die.