Article from the Corner of Barbara Kasey Smith’s World:
Are you suffering from a “suspicious mind” and you’ve caught yourself accusing your spouse, family member, friend or co-worker of a mind-blowing occurrence they didn’t do? Suspicions rule a person’s mind and guide them into a dark hole they find they cannot get out.
Did you know that a “suspicious mind” can turn a person’s life into uttered chaos and the saddest ending is they become total slaves to their suspicions?
Every person knows their own mind and should be aware if they’re the “suspicious type;” and if they are, they should seek professional help immediately before it ruins their life. I’ve seen people suffer complete madness because of a “suspicious mind” and it has gotten them into a lot of trouble on their jobs, in a relationship, in a marriage, with friends and with a family. Accusers will turn a minor event or a simple matter into totally false accusations and this instigates the accuser to follow friends, mates, and family around to spy on what they’re doing and then turn around to accuse them.
People suffering from a “suspicious mind” suffer from a lot of mental and tormenting anxiety in their life. It gets to a point they don’t believe a thing the person they’re accusing is saying. A person who has a “suspicious mind” makes their life miserable as well as those they’re in a relationship with too.
A “suspicious mind” can cause an individual to suffer bouts of depression, anxiety, and improper actions; and in some cases, a mental breakdown or suicide too. I’ve watched it happen repeatedly throughout my lifetime as I’ve associated with friends and family who have this type personality. They believe their accusations are correct and “no-one” else is right and they don’t want to hear any static.
Accusers allow their imaginative mind to conjure up all sorts of false thoughts and ideas; and they won’t listen when the accused person insists they’re wrong and they have not done what they’re being accused of doing. The accuser builds up an imagination of what they believe the person has done and they allow these images to magnify and to take over their mind to believe it is actual truth.
A “suspicious mind” is dangerous and it can cause a person to intensify their imaginations until they do not listen to common sense. Their mind has been magnified to enhance their falsehoods and ideas until they become enraged and a monster comes out to explode with lots of accusations.
If you’re reading this and you believe you might have a “suspicious mind,” take a few steps back and analyze your situation and try to determine why this started in the first place. What actually happened to cause the first onset of your suspicions? What did the person you’re accusing say or do to cause you to distrust their activities and actions in the first place?
It’s important to face the person you’re accusing and to look them in the eyes and ask them why they’ve been acting suspicious about their different activities and you may get an immediate answer from them. Listen to what they are saying and I’m sure you’ll see their actions were of an innocent nature and they did not do any of the things they are being accused of.
Do you know that distrust is a main logic for a person to end a relationship or a marriage? When people have relationships, they must trust the person until they’ve caught them into a falsehood. There’s no-one living on this earth that want to be accused of things they haven’t done; and they don’t want to be afraid to speak to another person without being accused of having a relationship with that person either.
“Suspicious minds” can be hazardous to the accuser’s health and also to the person they’re accusing of the wrong. People if you have a “suspicious mind,” seek professional help and don’t allow it to eat at your brain and destroy your life.
Barbara Kasey Smith is the writer of this article and it is based on her own opinion.